Only one thing counts.

It is doubtful whether God can bless a man greatly until He has hurt him deeply.” Tozar

Dear Ms
Thanks for the question, real refining takes real is found in testing.
The Hurt has often severed one from self, largley unable to find a place to escape to amidst surprise and struggle.

We're placed in positions to have to stand or go through the coasrse of action in which the blessing comes latter or directly in the testing. Love is something that grows in use, Like faith, God does not give it, till the impossible has it;s grip on you.“Any faith that must be supported by the evidence of the senses is not real faith.”

YES! deeply excited for the converted muslims by dreams or otherwise,God works despite the western religion's inability to grasp a miraculous God trapped in our doubt laden philosphies, or gain sake based organizations remain unable to lend themselves over for God to work in them due to external interests., in like manner.I pray that changes.why we went to ekklesia, it was the orgianal modle made by God.

“The reason why many are still troubled, still seeking, still making little forward progress is because they haven't yet come to the end of themselves. We're still trying to give orders, and interfering with God's work within us. ”
― A.W. Tozer

The Lord is showing us, he is able without our permision to do wonders, anytime he desires, I hope we get it....finally, love I know many are seeking, as was I .... it;s there have to get brave and do it.love to you.

“I want the presence of God Himself, or I don't want anything at all to do with religion... I want all that God has or I don't want any.”
― A.W. Tozer

NW